If you are a family member, loved one or friend of an individual critically injured in an accident, you may experience a range of emotions.
It’s common to feel shocked that someone you care for has been seriously injured. This is often followed by denial. You may feel that you can’t believe the accident has happened, or that someone you know and care for is in the hospital, possibly on life support. This is a normal reaction.
We hear about accidents and injuries in the news all the time, but don’t expect it will happen to us or someone we care for. When it does it can take some time to understand and accept.
It’s also normal to feel angry after an accident. You may be angry with other individuals involved, or circumstances that caused the accident. You may blame yourself for the circumstances surrounding the accident, or may lash out at care providers or your own personal support system. When we are afraid and upset anger is sometimes the emotion that finds expression.
What Can I do?
One of the best things you can do is learn about the injury treatments and options. As you understand the diagnosis and what comes next, you will feel more control over the situation.
Be sure you also ask for help. Contact those close to you including the broader community such as your church to let them know what you are going through.
Be an advocate. Learn about your loved one’s medical and legal rights. It’s important to start the life care planning process early if the injury victim is expected to have lifelong disabilities. Ask your lead physician about a life care planning consultation, or contact tour office for a free case evaluation.
At Life Care Solutions Group we are experienced medical providers who advocate for the legal rights of the critically injured. We have cared for patients at every phase of recovery, from the emergency department and intensive care unit to long term community based rehabilitation. We understand what you are going through and can help.
Contact us at 800-761-9206, or via our online form here.
